Friday, April 06, 2007

獻給我的母親

在復活節假期前後,禤中怡同時間經歷了人生兩大轉變,首先我做了第二任爸爸,小豬的妹妹小小豬出世了,正當一家人喜悅地迎接著這位新成員的時候,胖媽媽卻在一個深夜離開了。

在母親離開前的一個晚上,我還拿著剛為小小豬拍下的video給她看,她當時還作了一個親咀的表情,表達對小孫女的親愛。真的!這亦是我永遠也不會忘記跟媽媽在這個世界、時空中度過的最後一段美好時光。因為作為一個mummy’s boy,母親快樂比較我快樂更加重要!

說實話,我仍然不太明白母親為何會去得這麼突然,心裡的難過及難以接受的情緒還是揮之不去。現時叫我能夠止息悲痛的,只有是堅信媽媽已到達天國,在天父的庇蔭下過著幸福的生活。

母親一生人最大的投資,全部也放在我們兄弟姐妹身上了,禤中怡不是讀書聰明的人,在經過比一般人漫長的學習生涯後(半工讀時間幾達10年),才考獲那碩士學位。其實這個學位對我事業發展影響不大,但我深深體會到,由細到大,母親每次都會隆重其事地、盛裝一度的參加我們兄弟姐妹的畢業禮,而畢業照片亦自自然然成為母親的寶貝,放滿大廳的每一角落。還有一點,母親過去有一個十分叫禤中怡吃不消的習慣,就是她經常把我們兄弟姐妹的名片、相片放在手袋裡,一遇上她的朋友(母親通常稱呼這些朋友為姐妹),就會如數家珍,若我在現場的話,那種被點名品評的場面,確實是令人有點難為情,尷尷尬尬自是必然。

這些生活片段,現在回看起來,都是甜美的。

以下是給我一生最敬愛母親的說話,希望正在天國快樂地生活的母親,能夠收到這封寄往天堂的家書--------媽,您快樂的在天國生活下去吧!不用再牽掛爸爸及我們兄弟姐妹各人,我們一定會「生性」做人,我會盡力照顧家中各人的,請您放心。

感謝神的恩典,我期待著將來與您在天國重聚的一天。到時我們又可以快快樂樂的在一起了。

最後,我要為在這個原本以投資內容為主的專欄,多次提及家事而向讀者致歉(小豬媽曾提醒我,不要把專欄變成只是抒發個人感受,她認為讀者看《中環博客》,最主要的,還是希望了解經濟、投資方面的市場動態及意見分析。)我對此亦十分認同,故此在這裡,衷心多謝您們的包容。

向護士們致敬
出入醫院,方知道各白衣天使的艱苦處,護士一向是日夜輪班工作的行業,真的有錢都無時間享受,還未計要繼續修讀不同課程以增強實力,然後考試拿取學歷才有上位機會。這種工作除粗重工夫多之外,處境還十分危險。

去年底便已有報章指有護士幫流浪漢洗身時,水珠誤濺入眼中,護士卻被細菌感染亦不知,直至發作後才向專科醫生求診,檢驗結果原來是眼睛染了梅毒,最慘的是影響了眼角膜,需移植新眼角膜。

另外,精神病問題的嚴重性在於突發,最近更聽聞這樣一個故事。有精神病人病發時選擇跳樓,護士首要工作當然要救人,奈何從窗外救人成功後,手臂卻遭破裂的玻璃嚴重割傷,有多嚴重?最後手臂縫超過40針!更慘的是,這位好護士原來是替補一名請病假的同事,真的不知是巧合或是注定了。他還是一名音樂好手,更屬演奏級別,受傷後足足兩年不能再碰樂器,但更無奈的是,該名病人最終難逃一死,試問那位護士的感受如何難過呢?禤中怡也要肅然起敬,感謝護士們的無私奉獻。

(4月10日刊於《am730》)

65 Comments:

At 8:45 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

No! No! No! 我相信絕大部份的讀者是很喜愛看有人氣的文章。你和你的胖媽媽衹是暫別,將來你和她一定會在天國重逢,我相信她現時在天父的旁邊,很快慰地看著你如何照顧下一代。主佑!!

 
At 9:33 PM, Blogger Walter said...

請你不要太傷心了。

節哀順變。

 
At 9:46 PM, Anonymous 何許人 said...

才不要看只談錢而沒有血肉的文章呢。
節哀順變。

 
At 10:36 PM, Anonymous sunfai said...

節哀。

你能在博客中分享家事, 才見真誠。

 
At 10:39 PM, Anonymous HHH said...

My condolences.

 
At 11:01 PM, Anonymous Justin said...

節哀順變。

 
At 11:13 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Strive to be peaceful. Warmest Regards.

 
At 11:45 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

加油

 
At 12:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

R.I.P.

 
At 12:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

R.I.P.

 
At 12:10 AM, Blogger Michael said...

This comment has been removed by the author.

 
At 12:12 AM, Blogger Michael said...

人非草木
也煥醒常常只注視股市上落的我們,親情可貴

 
At 1:52 AM, Blogger Charles said...

節哀順變
路還是要走下去的
寫下令壽堂的結局編
開始你人生的新一頁
我們支持你

主內

 
At 10:47 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

節哀。

 
At 2:54 PM, Anonymous anacel said...

投資不過只是達到個人幸福的手段,可是個人幸福不是錢可買回來的.
甚至作為財經投資blog, 這一點也不能忘記

所以CK放心寫好了.

May god bless you.

 
At 10:50 PM, Anonymous Lok said...

雖然自己並不是基督徒, 但也希望禤中怡媽媽能在天國得到安息.

加油!

 
At 11:28 PM, Anonymous May said...

don't be sad...your mom will always stay with you. Take care!

 
At 11:48 PM, Anonymous 會計仔 said...

節哀順變

 
At 9:21 AM, Blogger keddy said...

我們在世上都只是過客,既知道將來人歸何處,他日有機會相見,也就有了盼望,但願你節哀順便,繼續開心迎接前面的日子,亦為你家中有新小寶寶出世為你喜閱。我們會繼續支持你。
主內

 
At 12:04 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

no problem to see human soft materials about your life. I like it, don't worry

 
At 1:46 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

節哀順變

 
At 12:31 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

節哀順變。

 
At 4:33 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

CK,

作為你的私人blog,一點個人大點小滴才能替這處添點人情味。

寵辱不驚,閒觀庭前花開花落春去秋來;去留無意,漫隨天邊雲卷雲舒沉浮起落!

節哀順變。

 
At 9:19 AM, Blogger 渣估 said...

節哀順變...

 
At 9:25 AM, Blogger Alex said...

I am so sorry to hear that.

節哀順變。

 
At 9:45 AM, Blogger Severus said...

節哀順變..

 
At 10:13 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

from small potato: life just like a walking tour 節哀順變http://psalm-song.myweb.hinet.net/walkingtour.swf

 
At 10:37 AM, Anonymous Polly said...

我相信胖媽媽已很安詳的在天父的懷中啊..要好好照顧你爸爸..突然失去老伴真的不易接受..會繼續為你們一家人禱告..

 
At 11:26 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

珍惜眼前人
請節哀

 
At 1:32 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

May I express my condolences over your mother's passing away. Earlier, I intended to express my concern over your Mom's sickness, not expecting the sudden sad news....
Life is full of mixed feelings and ironies, esp at this time when your daugther was born and your Mom...
Enjoy your article which smells warm humanity and life-reflecting...
Your readers support you.

 
At 1:48 PM, Blogger Enzo.... I am Enzo said...

節哀順變..
比心機呀

照顧你的小小豬 小豬 和 小豬媽呀

God bless You

 
At 1:57 PM, Blogger James said...

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At 1:58 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

My condolences, may your mother rest in peace.

 
At 2:56 PM, Blogger 馬沙 said...

中怡兄,

估不到假後收到這傷感的消息.值得可喜的是胖媽媽能見到小小豬出世,算是安慰.

胖媽媽必會到達天國,快樂地生活.安息主懷!

刻下更重要的是好好照料父親及初生的小小豬和小豬媽.

節哀順變。

 
At 3:26 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

oh, sorry to hear the bad news.

You have my prayers and support. And I am sure you will perservere through this time of sadness.

God bless!

Fermat

 
At 4:23 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

不要太傷心,請加油!

 
At 4:45 PM, Blogger 渣估 said...

2:54PM 的 anacel
4:33PM 的 留言兄台:

You two have made a BIG mistake!

 
At 5:11 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

胖媽媽現在已在主慈愛的懷中, 等待在天家與你們相聚, 所以你自己和你家人要保重.
有一天, 主應許你們會在天家相見.

願主祝福你們一家

 
At 8:00 PM, Blogger KWL said...

誠如馬沙兄所言,胖媽媽在病榻中能見到小小豬出世,對老人家而言,無嘗不是一種福氣。希望中怡兄及家人能節哀順變吧!

我們日常生活己經充滿冰冷的只講金錢投資的文章,我情願看一些有人情味既文章。所以,請中怡兄維持現時既寫作手法啦!

 
At 8:34 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

My condolences on you mother's demise. Thank you for sharing your faith with us.

 
At 8:43 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

希望胖媽媽在天國安息.
我們更加要珍惜眼前人
加油!

 
At 9:00 PM, Blogger 荒人 said...

請節哀.

現階段乃父最需要你們兄弟姐妹照料,
若無暇分身,中怡兄便暫且停一停稿罷.

 
At 11:26 PM, Anonymous Stephen said...

禤先生:
我閱讀今日的AM730才知道你媽媽的事…我很愕然也為你感到難過….
我知道你心裡的哀傷只有你自己才最明白! 我希望可以用禱告給你半點的支持﹐而上帝更必給你安慰﹐和你一起走過人生每段路!
你說得對;你媽媽這一刻就已和上帝一起過着幸福的生活!因每一個人都是祂的兒女﹐是祂所愛。她和上帝也一同等待和你在天國見面重聚﹐永不分離!
在禱告中支持你和你每位家人!
Stephen

 
At 12:04 AM, Anonymous Charles said...

非常明白你的得而復失的悲痛!我的父親亦是剛剛去世不久,當你滿心歡喜以為他漸漸康復,正預備明天要帶去探他的用品時,忽然他就離去...

生活仍然要繼續!不過很佩服你仍可寫作!我也有兩個女兒(小的還未足一歲),所以你我並不孤單,希望大家可以互相勉勵,努力下去,不負在天上父母的期望!

btw 很欣賞你的文章,請努力!

願主祝福,誠心所願

主內

 
At 12:51 AM, Anonymous Sam said...

請繼續寫出你的風格、你的人生觀,當然還有你對環球經濟的觀點,我希望你這角色,讓更多人明白除了財經,還有比這更重要的東西是要去珍惜,別愛得太遲!

加油,我支持你!

 
At 1:11 PM, Blogger Karen (Sze) said...

禤先生:

節哀順變, 珍惜眼前人之餘, 亦請您和您的家人好好生活下去。

願您的母親在天國得到安息......

God Bless!

 
At 1:16 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

很突然…傷痛感既揮之不去,唯有忍受著,總有一天會好的,明天等著你。

 
At 1:34 PM, Blogger C.M. said...

禤先生 and Charles:

為前路繼續努力!祝福你們。

 
At 3:50 PM, Anonymous 同路人 said...

喜歡看你的blog.
看到胖媽媽入院的blog那早上,我的爸爸也躺在醫院內,看到胖媽媽穩定的早上,我的爸爸也穏定了,但是病情反覆,常人是不能明白.爸爸走了,回到公司的早上,看到胖媽媽也走了.
那一刻,我們的心是連在一起的.

相信胖媽媽跟爸爸已經到了另一個更美的國度,遙望守護我們.

人總是有生老病死,股市有升有跌.
有時有幕後莊家在操控,有時有消息在散播.
這些,我們在升或跌中,都不能知道,都不能自主.
我們有很多人生的無奈及無助,及時行樂!
買升勢中的股票;享受人生相聚的快樂.

Life goes on!

 
At 8:16 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

節哀順變

 
At 9:07 PM, Anonymous Jason CY Siu said...

節哀順變

 
At 9:35 PM, Anonymous tintinbright said...

母親一生人最大的投資,全部也放在我們兄弟姐妹身上了
she has made a wise investment ...
so live well!

May her love be extended to 'little pig' through you.

One life fade out, another going to flourish, sad but ... c'est la vie

Add oil and your mom will smile enough to see your family live well

 
At 12:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Love your blog very much, I read AM730 just because of your column! So sad to hear that your ma has passed away, but now she must has received the greatest love of all -leading a new life in heaven! Cheer up! May god continues to bless you and your family!

Love in Christ,
a Catholic

 
At 2:10 PM, Blogger s tsui said...

節哀順變!與父母的親情比任何金錢新聞都要大。May God keep you safe and strong.

 
At 10:34 PM, Anonymous 貓頭鷹 said...

今天才知你媽媽離去
請不要太傷心

大家都好支持你

 
At 12:19 AM, Anonymous Raymond said...

單看這麼多的回覆, 就知道你把這件事寫出來, 絕對沒有人覺得會影響你的專欄, 金錢以外還有很多其他的東西的.

我媽於年初時亦發現第三次癌症, 而電療後現在亦只可以作出控制, 不能完全清除. 太太現有第二胎, 已三個多月了. 所以看後也有點感觸.

你媽媽在天國看見你寫的文章, 並不是一編教人投資的文章, 竟然有那麼多有心人回覆, 一定會感到很安慰.

繼續努力! 明天又是新的開始.
珍惜眼前人!

 
At 11:33 AM, Blogger 學霖山莊 said...

節哀...

 
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